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Well. I started thinking about it. Yeah, it's maybe great that I'm not the problem, I'm not at fault (or so I thought) but the fact remained that whatever outcome I desired didn't materialize. So regardless, if I am to blame or otherwise be the victim, at the end of the day, I still don't have what I want.
What if there was nobody else I could blame for a failure, no circumstance I could point the finger at, no excuse I could conjure up? Then what? Well. Pretty sure the world wouldn't end. The sun will still come up and life will still go on. But, most importantly, having nothing or no one to blame, I would have to look at myself and understand what I did wrong, where I can improve, what I can do next time, and even look at what I got right. Bottom line, I would LEARN.
This failure or setback would be a learning experience and I would take valuable information away from it. Taking the blame and responsibility for things allows me to TAKE CONTROL. I begin to learn then that if I caused the failure - I can cause success. Or as W. Clement Stone once put it, "If you realize that you have created your current conditions, then you can uncreate them and recreate them at will." This is so important for you and your subconscious mind to know.
Additionally, we gain respect and self-esteem points from ourselves and respect from others when we "man up" (hey, sorry women, I don't make these sayings up) and admit fault.
Now lets extrapolate (don't let the big words confuse you) that forward. Anything you do or are involved in, you need to take 100% responsibility, even if things were outside of your control. Only then do you learn. Only then can you take control of your life and the things that occur within it. Until I realize that I am the cause of everything in my life, I'm abdicating my power and strength. This speaks volumes to my subconscious mind as well to other people. Until you do, you will always be a victim to whatever life throws your way. Your life will be a roller coaster tossing you about as it wishes. It will have it's way with you and spit you out. Sure you can blame it on the rain like Milly Vanilly. You can blame it on Suzy in accounting, on your boss, your headache, whatever. In any case, you're stating you're powerless and you're openly admitting it nonetheless.
You're openly stating that you're at the mercy of people or circumstances. Battlefield 3 cheats